Please read this page to make your membership
even more enjoyable!

When you join, you will be e-mailed your "username." Upon receipt, please make a permanent record. At this time, follow the link to create your password. You then have the option to preview your profile or search for a potential mate.

Please, only create one profile. This is to reduce login errors.

Once you are a member....
Men, you can preview your own profile here.
Ladies, you can preview your own profile here.

Attention AOL users: Your AOL screen name will not work as your e-mail address. All e-mail addresses must have an "@" sign.

1. Is membership always free? Yes, always free!

2. How do I contact the staff?
Click here for contact information.

3. (For the Gentlemen) Do I need to complete a profile at TopBachelors.com if I just want to look? Yes, you do. This will grant you the privilege of viewing the profiles at TopBachelorettes.com. Your profile code will be on your e-mail, and will also keep your e-mail account private. No partial profiles wil be accepted just so you may see the other site.

4. Is a photo really necessary for my profile? As they say, "It's worth a thousand words!" Our studies have shown that profiles with photos receive more than seven times the response as non-photo profiles. We strongly recommend taking your time and uploading a quality photo of yourself. It should be one that you are proud to show. Shirts (tops) without a detailed pattern look the best. Use a picture that really shows your face well. Often times, people use a photo that was taken too far away. Since your photo can be up to 3 inches wide, you have a couple of options (if you know how to use Adobe Photoshop). You may always just use a simple "head shot." Or, you could make a split-photo that has the top half of the picture a "head shot" and the bottom picture could be one of the following: full-body, waist up, sports picture, action shot, etc. This could also be split left and right.

5. Do you have any suggestions for better results? Make sure you tell your potential mate about what you are looking for in a person, rather than just more about yourself. It is important for the person to learn about you, but they need to know if they fit your idea of a perfect mate.

6. Can I change my profile or photo after I submit it for the first time? Yes!

7. How large of a photo can be uploaded?
Your photo can be up to 3 inches wide.

8. Why do I need a "User Name" for my profile? This is the name you will go by at our site. This is to protect your identity. It also helps us with database management. A User Name IS REQUIRED!

9. How does the search function work?
A)Click on "member log in"
B) Enter your "User Name"
C) Enter your password.
D) Click "OK"
E) Choose to "view a random member" or "do a search."
F) When you click on "search," you will be given choices to focus your search.
G) Leaving the dropdown menus at "No preference" will greatly broaden your choices. USE the "CTRL" button to select more than one option for each preference.
H) Click on "Find" at the bottom of the form.
I) You will then see the list of members who fit your search requirements. Those with a camera icon next to their User Name have included a photo with their profile.
J) Click on your choice and a new window will open with that person's profile. If you want to narrow your search, or redefine your preferences, click the "RETURN" button until you get to the page where you make your selections. Make further preferences or alter a search category such as "age".
K) Leave a message on the member's page of your choice.

10. How do I know when someone wants to contact me?
A potential mate will type a message at the bottom of your profile and send it to you via e-mail. The message will have a link that goes directly to their profile. When you use that link to send a return message, they will receive that message via their e-mail. You communicate back and forth in this manner.

11. Do I need to type in my e-mail address in the "office use" area of my profile?
YES! It will not be seen by anyone except our staff. If your e-mail is not valid, your profile will not work!
Your password will be sent to your e-mail address. Attention AOL users: Your AOL screen name will not work as your e-mail address. All e-mail addresses must have an "@" sign.

12. What are your members like?
Our Members are 57% male, 43% female
• median age: 35
18-24 19%
25-34 20%
35-44 29%
45-54 12%
• median household income: $52K
$35K-$49K 19%
$50K-$74K 21%
$75K-$99K 12%
$100K-$149K 12%

• Any direct contact information (i.e., email addresses, URLs, ICQ/instant messenger IDs, phone numbers, full names, addresses)
• Any location or descriptive information that threatens a member’s anonymity
• Abusive language of any kind (i.e., vulgarity, racism)
• Discussion or descriptions of illegal acts or behavior (i.e., drug use, violence)
• Business or political advertisements or solicitations
• Material that exploits or solicits personal information from individuals under the age of 18
• Foreign languages (to effectively monitor profiles, they must be in English)
• Solicitation of multiple or additional partners
• Unauthorized use of copyrighted or trademarked material
• Overt sexual innuendo or discussion